Variety is the Spice of Life
Adding a bit of variety to your bedroom shouldn’t be hard or scary. Rather introducing spice for the first time, or an old hand, the goal is to relax and have fun. One of the easiest ways to introduce a little bondage is by using sports sheets. Sports sheets are an easy to manage bondage system, so much easier than wrestling with ropes and chains. Ropes and chains have their place, but sports sheets allows both parties to just relax and enjoy themselves. The bed is one of the very best places for bondage play. Why? It allows a degree of comfort that can’t be matched on expensive bondage furniture (and…in most cases…you already own one).
Once you’ve got your partner tied up (or they have you tied down) what do you do with them? Wicked Butterfly offers lots of fun ideas. Blindfolds highten senses to allow for teasing and anticipation to be more tantalizing. The Booty Parlor Good Girl/Bad Girl Blindfold is a lighthearted and fun, silky, sexy satin. It allows you to celebrate both your good and bad sides. If you want more series sensuous sight elimination to further heighten your senses, you might prefer the double padded Entice Eye Mask. To further embrace the sensations that go with sightlessness, you may want to try a full hood. The Fetish Fantasy Series Full Face Hood is a soft, breathable spandex.
The blindfolds will make something as simple as an ostrich feather call to attention every nerve it touches. Try the Body Tickler Starburst Feather available in 5 colors. If you think the visual of a whip would add enticement for before the blindfolds go on, perhaps try adding the Chain Ball Tickler. It has a really beautiful, cold sensation when dragged lightly across the skin. Change sensations often to keep your lover on their toes. A rubber tickler is a completely different sensation from the chain ball one (http://adult.wicked-butterfly.com/bondage-blindfolds-amp-restraints/tickling-products/chain-ball-tickler–silver). Yet another totally different feeling is the Kinklab Wartenberg Pinwheel. Keep your toys out of sight until your lover is tied down and blindfolded, then ask them to try and guess what you are touching their skin with, as you change up and keep their heads spinning.
Wax play is another interesting sensation. It seems simple, just head off to the market and buy up some candles. But with safety a paramont concern, you have to be sure your wax doesn’t burn to hot. Colored wax usually burns hotter than white wax, but Wicked Butterfly offers a variety of candles that are safe to play with, like the Japanese Drip Candles available in a pack of three different colors. Just be sure to hold the wax high enough over your lovers body to give it a moment or two to cool before it hits the skin.
With all these fun toys, it’s hard to know where to begin. How about everything? Wicked Butterfly offers some nice starter kits, like Dr. Berman Shades of Purple Playroom Kit , which offers everything you need to get started on your new journey.
Be safe, and have fun!
Posted on May 4, 2016, in Intimacy Tips and tagged BDSM, bedroom fun, bedroom ideas, couples time, feathers, ideas, intimacy, kinky, mask, passion, reignite passion, S&M, sex life, spice it up, spice up sex life, stuck in a rut, submissive, tickler, toys, variety, wicked butterfly. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.